Petition to have a
very gaysports anime *pause for effect* with girls
A lot of asks came my way recent about my stance on gender reassignment surgery. I stand by what I said. If you are trans and want to physically be the gender your brain is wired to be, your treating your transgenderism like its something bad that needs to changed and desperately want to be “normal” aka CIS. That is toxic and dangerous to the trans community and fortifies the CIS idea that there’s something wrong with trans people. On top of that there’s no way to add or remove Y cromazomes so it is just surgical mutilation. I can sow my vag shut and have a hot dog grafted on to me. That would not turn me into a man.
I CANT BELIEVE IT WEVE GONE FULL CIRCLE WE HAVE REACHED CRITICAL MASS IT IS NOW TRANSPHOBIC FOR PEOPLE TO EXPERIENCE DYSPHORIA AND DESIRE TO TRANSITION MAMA MIA THAT IS A SPICY MEATBALL
I don’t understand how people think “sex and gender are different and sex based oppression is very real” is more heinous than “omg how fucking dare you, I hope all cisbians fucking burn I hope they choke, they can go get raped for all I care.”
Are any radfems on this site actually open to discussing their view with non radfems or are they all here to huddle in a corner together and complain about men, trans people and intersex people? seriously, every time me and a radfem get into an argument they eventually just believe they’re just way too enlightened to bother listening to anyone else, and don’t actually think about anything and soon just abruptly leave the conversation. Like seriously, if you really want to have that radfem revolution and overthrow you’re going to need to open up..
Because your politics are so convoluted that no one can quite understand your motives, and you’re certainly not entitled to anyone’s time or discourse. Sometimes it’s best just to save energy instead of arguing with someone who’s obviously so stuck in their politics that they’ve decided to create a blog titled “radfemhater.” Honestly, I’m surprised anyone has given you the time of day via even the most short-lived arguments. There’s not really any common ground and no growth is available in a conversation that is comprised of shit slinging in both directions. Formally identifying as a radical feminist, I’d be the first to bring up their faults, but I can honestly understand why conversation with you is short and never sweet, and almost never to the point. The whole “opening up” thing goes both ways, after all.
Some feminists have made a good point that including male “allies” in women’s spaces is derailing in itself because it always leads to divisiveness among women & weakens solidarity. Many women feel unwelcome or unsafe in feminist spaces (online & irl) that allow men to join discussions, activism, or projects about women’s lives & feminist issues. Then women argue over whether men should be there, whether we need male allies to help us, etc. & it’s such a fucking waste of time. I’ve had that experience myself & it’s so, so alienating when women defend men’s right to be there & have their voices heard, & then scold women who criticise the men. I will never, ever trust feminists who bring men into feminism (looking at you, straight feminists). As much as I can’t stand them, I hate the male “allies” so much more, because I know they feel smug and confident getting validation from women that their opinions are super important & their “help” is super needed, & knowing that these women will drive out other women to make room for them.